We are two different people. We have different needs and communicate in different ways. It’s okay…if we understand that.
Had some issues recently. He wasn’t doing things the way that I would.
He had some issues with me too. I wasn’t doing things the way that he would.
We aren’t the same person. We wouldn’t be attracted to each other if we were. And, we are so good together until we make a mountain out of a mole hill. But, not always. We have valid disagreements. We both have valid issues and concerns. We handle things so differently. We have such different needs, and we communicate them so differently.
Are we not listening to each other? Are we not trying hard enough?
Disclaimer: This post was originally written a couple weeks ago. Life has definitely changed since this, but I learned from this situation.
Mars v Venus